BUILDING A LASTING CONNECTION®
Join the 5-Week Digital Workshop Now For A One-Time Discounted Payment of Only $97
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
The Relationship You Want, The Family You Want . . . The Life You Want, Is Fueled By The Connection You Build
BUILDING A LASTING CONNECTION®
Join The 5-Week Digital Workshop Now For A One-Time Discounted Payment Of Only $97
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
The Relationship You Want, The Family You Want . . . The Life You Want, Is Fueled By The Connection You Build
Heal Hurt & Anger
There’s something special about the two of you. You want to be there for each other. And you’re dedicated to building a lasting love that will stay strong and weather the storms of life.
This five-week digital workshop will help you maintain a strong relationship throughout your life by giving you skill-practice with the latest couple’s attachment education.
Stop disconnection from taking root, and nurture the warmth of connection and belonging.
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
Heal Hurt & Anger
There’s something special about the two of you. You want to be there for each other. And you’re dedicated to building a lasting love that will stay strong and weather the storms of life.
This five-week digital workshop will help you maintain a strong relationship throughout your life by giving you skill-practice with the latest couple’s attachment education.
Stop disconnection from taking root, and nurture the warmth of connection and belonging.
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
YOUR DIFFERENCES
MAKE YOU PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER

In Building a Lasting Connection®, you’ll lean into your strengths to come closer together. There’s a reason you chose each other. When you’re anchored in connection, you’re a great team.
This couple’s enrichment workshop will help you cultivate belonging and stop hurt and anger from taking root.
Research shows when we build emotional safety by practicing secure attachment skills, we make decisions that keep our love alive.
Use this workshop to nurture safe sharing, listening, and connecting—so life’s challenges always bring you closer together.



YOUR DIFFERENCES
MAKE YOU PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER






In Building a Lasting Connection®, you’ll lean into your strengths to come closer together. There’s a reason you chose each other. When you’re anchored in connection, you’re a great team.
This couple’s enrichment workshop will help you cultivate belonging and stop hurt and anger from taking root.
Research shows when we build emotional safety by practicing secure attachment skills, we make decisions that keep our love alive.
Use this workshop to nurture safe sharing, listening, and connecting—so life’s challenges always bring you closer together.
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
LASTING CONNECTION®
COUPLES SAY . . .



“I’m amazed how good it feels to communicate calmly with such deep emotions.”
“Our conversations with the system are very helpful, we slow down and each of us are heard.”
“Such powerful exercises!”
“Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!”
LASTING CONNECTION®
COUPLES SAY . . .



“I’m amazed how good it feels to communicate calmly with such deep emotions.”
“Our conversations with the system are very helpful, we slow down and each of us are heard.”
“Such powerful exercises!”
“Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!”












IN BUILDING A LASTING CONNECTION® YOU'LL LEARN





- The essential steps for building emotional safety and connection in romantic love, so your loving bond is strong and safe and continues to grow.
- The secrets to the kind of communication that creates connection, so you can practice sharing and listening in a way that makes you both feel valued.
- How to fix the hurts that block your connection by using sensitive topics to bring you closer together, so you can tune in to each other heart-to-heart.
- New ways to view intimate and affectionate touch from your partner’s perspective, so your contact can be a journey of discovery and comfort.
- How to develop goals, traditions, and rituals so your partnership supports each person individually, your shared dreams, and your family togetherness.
IN BUILDING A LASTING CONNECTION® YOU'LL LEARN





- The essential steps for building emotional safety and connection in romantic love, so your loving bond is strong and safe and continues to grow.
- The secrets to the kind of communication that creates connection, so you can practice sharing and listening in a way that makes you both feel valued.
- How to fix the hurts that block your connection by using sensitive topics to bring you closer together, so you can tune in to each other heart-to-heart.
- New ways to view intimate and affectionate touch from your partner’s perspective, so your contact can be a journey of discovery and comfort.
- How to develop goals, traditions, and rituals so your partnership supports each person individually, your shared dreams, and your family togetherness.
We learned to communicate in a new way, and it brought us closer together. It’s like we got a map and found our way home.”
—Building a Lasting Connection® Couple
BUILDING A LASTING CONNECTION® A Comprehensive Couple's Program



Learn the Science of Relationships



Experience Nurturing Conversations


Watch Inspiring Video Content


Use the Companion Workbook



Stay Motivated


Get Lifetime Access
BUILDING A LASTING CONNECTION® A Comprehensive Couple's Program



Learn the Science of Relationships



Experience Nurturing Conversations


Watch Inspiring Talks


Use the Companion Workbook



Stay Motivated


Get Lifetime Access
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
There is nothing more rewarding in life than to love. We want to help you safeguard and secure your love.
We believe love is meant to be strong enough to last, so we can build our lives with each other.
For most of us—to experience a relationship that grows with us—we need to invest time and resources to learn how to keep it strong and thriving.”
—Dr. Debi Gilmore and Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen, Building a Lasting Connection® Co-Developers




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There is nothing more rewarding in life than to love. We want to help you safeguard and secure your love. We believe love is meant to be strong enough to last, so we can build our lives with each other.
For most of us—to experience a relationship that grows with us—we need to invest time and resources to learn how to keep it strong and thriving.”
—Dr. Debi Gilmore and Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen,
Building a Lasting Connection® Developers
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There is nothing more rewarding in life than to love. We want to help you safeguard and secure your love. We believe love is meant to be strong enough to last, so we can build our lives with each other.
For most of us—to experience a relationship that grows with us—we need to invest time and resources to learn how to keep it strong and thriving.”
—Dr. Debi Gilmore and Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen,
Building a Lasting Connection® Developers
MEET THE DEVELOPERS



Dr. Debi Gilmore


Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen
Dr. Jorgensen and Dr. Gilmore are two psychologists who specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). They’ve helped thousands of couples improve their relationships through workshops, therapy, and therapist-training. As a specialist, Dr. Jorgensen travels all over the world—from Korea to Romania and New Zealand to Norway—training other therapists in EFT.
Endorsed by the American Psychological Association, EFT is the most successful couple’s therapy available, with a success rate of 70%.
Due to its success, Dr. Jorgensen and Dr. Gilmore wanted to offer couples who weren’t in therapy a way to secure their bond, so they created Building a Lasting Connection® using the same attachment-based model that makes EFT successful.
As a certified facilitator, I’ll help you harness the power of attachment skills to build on your strengths, prevent conflict, and strengthen your relational foundation, so it continues to support you throughout your life.



Camille Pack





MEET THE DEVELOPERS



Dr. Debi Gilmore


Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen



Camille Pack





What the Developer of Building a Lasting Connection® Says ABOUT CAMILLE PACK, CERTIFIED BLC FACILITATOR


“I’ve watched Camille across the years, and I’m excited to recommend her as someone who can help you find love and connection in your life.
She’s a wonderful coach, who brings gentle kindness into her work in a way that creates powerful insights and strong connections.”
DR. REBECCA JORGENSEN
Building a Lasting Connection® Co-Developer,
Director of the San Diego Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy
and TRI EFT Alliant.
What Couples Say About Building a Lasting Connection®



—“I am so grateful for this system. Thank you so much!”
—“I think the real value in the connection system is it helps you to separate the emotions/elements and due to that it’s easier to identify true root causes and also recognize your own attachment needs.”
—“I really like the pause section. It helps me follow my wife’s thoughts.”
—“I like that even when we start in a harsh place as we move around the system we soften up and it feels so positive.”
—“The talking we’ve done with the connection system so far was very helpful and has given me hope that we can fix our marriage.”



What Couples Say About Building a Lasting Connection®



—“I am so grateful for this system. Thank you so much!”
—“I think the real value in the connection system is it helps you to separate the emotions/elements and due to that it’s easier to identify true root causes and also recognize your own attachment needs.”
—“I really like the pause section. It helps me follow my wife’s thoughts.”
—“I like that even when we start in a harsh place as we move around the system we soften up and it feels so positive.”
—“The talking we’ve done with the connection system so far was very helpful and has given me hope that we can fix our marriage.”





Strengthen authenticity and intimacy.
Learn to confidently communicate your needs.
Solve problems, and support a lifetime of love.
Be Brave. Be Open. Get Connected.


Strengthen authenticity and intimacy. Learn to confidently communicate your needs. Solve problems, and support a lifetime of love.
Be Brave. Be Open. Get Connected.
BUILDING A LASTING CONNECTION®
Join the 5-Week Workshop Now For A One-Time Discounted Payment of Only $97
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
The Relationship You Want, The Family You Want . . . The Life You Want, Is Fueled By The Connection You Build
BUILDING A LASTING CONNECTION®
Join The 5-Week Workshop Now For A One-Time Discounted Payment Of Only $97
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
The Relationship You Want, The Family You Want . . . The Life You Want, Is Fueled By The Connection You Build
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Building a Lasting Connection® is a program for early relationships and committed couples. It’s appropriate for any couple seeking to enhance their relationship skills and build a lasting love that will stay strong and weather the storms of life. The program is beneficial for newly established and long-term relationships, including:
- Pre-Marital Couples
- Couples in their first year
- Couples in long-term relationships, who may have multiple decades of commitment
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The entire course can be completed in 10+ hours. Most couples plan for two hours a week, and you’re welcome to work at your own pace.
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- 10 Hours of Video Content
- A Digital PDF Workbook for Printing (1 Per Person)
- Activities and Self-Assessments
- 2 Digital Conversation Touch Mats for Printing
- Weekly Reminder Emails
- (Optional) Discounted Rate for the $200 Connection System, which includes the physical product versions of the Conversation Floor Mat and Touch Mats, for a more embodied, somatic experience.
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- 10 Hours of Video Content
- A Digital PDF Workbook for Printing (1 Per Person)
- Activities and Self-Assessments
- 2 Digital Conversation Touch Mats for Printing
- Weekly Reminder Emails
- (Optional) Discounted Rate for the $200 Connection System, which includes the physical product versions of the Conversation Floor Mat and Touch Mats, for a more embodied, somatic experience.
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Building a Lasting Connection® is a psychoeducational resource for couples who are interested in enhancing the bonding process, as well as the present and future quality of their relationship. Each participant is required to sign a release form acknowledging that Lasting Connection® is not intended to be a substitute for marital therapy with a licensed professional therapist.
Any participant wishing to withdraw from the program may do so at any time.
If you or your partner are experiencing significant relationship distress, severe anxiety or depression, or any other mental health issue, you are urged to seek treatment from a professional immediately. Under the care of a licensed mental health professional, Building a Lasting Connection® may serve as a supplemental treatment option in addition to your therapy.
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Lasting Connection® is not appropriate for use when:
- There is an explicit and obvious lack of commitment to the growth of the relationship by one partner.
- There is evidence of extensive and/or long-standing relationship distress in the relationship such that a couple would be better served by seeking out a couple therapist instead of engaging in this relationship education program.
- There is evidence of significant physical violence such as hitting, slapping, use of objects to hurt or intimidate or emotional abuse in the relationship such as contempt, frequent hostile name-calling, or demeaning comments to the degree that one person expresses fear of the other.
- There is evidence of a history of significant mental health problems in either partner that would prevent productive interactions. Examples include a diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder, paranoid schizophrenia, or suicidal ideation.
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Absolutely! The couple’s research primarily draws on cisgendered, heterosexual, monogamous relationships, but attachment—as the study of relationship—applies to all significant relationships.
Please feel free to reach out here if you have additional questions.
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In a warm, supportive environment, we experience our common humanity. There’s something rich about a live experience, and many couples prefer the supportive community of a facilitated, live workshop.
There are four ways to join a live workshop with me, privately or with a group—virtually or in person.
- Join a private workshop on Zoom dedicated to you and your partner, over five 90-minute sessions. (Email me to request a time.)
- Join a private, in person workshop dedicated to you and your partner in a two-day intensive in Portland, OR. (Email me to request a time.)
- Join a group workshop over Zoom. (Email me to join the waiting list for the next one.)
- Join a group workshop outdoors under a covered pavilion in Portland, OR. (Email me to be added to the announcement list.)
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!
I Want 5-Weeks of Couple’s Enrichment!

